First and Foremost I am a Woman of Strength and Deep Conviction... I am a BBW femme with deep blue eyes and long raven colored curls which are fast beginning to grey... I am 5' 10" in height with stats of
48DDD-44-50 and am most always happy and smiling...


I view life as something of great importance and thus never take a single day for granted... I choose to live my life based on Honour, Honesty, and Loyalty to those I am Committed to, and as such I do tend to expect others who wander into my life to possess those characteristics as well...


I am most often a very gentle natured creature who would go to great lengths to avoid conflict, and am as a result quite often disillusioned with the world around me and the lack of honesty from those with whom I must share my time from day to day... I have a gentle spirit and am easily wounded by the general lack of genuine caring the world around me displays, thus I tend to withdraw into myself and seek out only those capable of compassion and loving unconditionally...


I am a Mother, a Lover, and to many a Friend... Having already outlived my three beautiful children gives me a strength most will never need in life, and has taught me to be more compassionate to those less fortunate than I in this life... And yes the loss of three children has also taught me to love more deeply and unconditionally than I ever knew was possible, for we never truly know when those we love may suddenly be gone from our lives forever...


I am college educated having both an MSW and PhD in Psychology and Behavioral Sciences from Holy Cross College in Massachusetts and a Masters in Business Administration from Vanderbilt University in Tennessee... I do a great deal of volunteer work in the Domestic and Child Abuse fields for an area Battered Women's Shelter, and make a modest living as a graphic artist and web designer.I also own a gift and collectibles business and maintain a full shop on the web which can be linked to from the main page of this site.


Though I am a parapelegic as a result of a broken neck, I live quite independently and have a fairly normal life for the most part... I still play and enjoy a good game of Tennis or Basketball, love to ride horseback, swim on a regular basis and have a normal social life... I cook, sew, garden, maintain my own home, play a keyboard and compose my own music... So I guess You could say life hasn't changed a great deal simply because I no longer have the ability to walk...

I am also a Switch...I am equally comfortable within the role of submissive or Domme... Though I am mostly in a position of authority in my everyday life, I enjoy deeply the exchange of power that takes place between a Dominant and their submissive... When the Dominant I feel completely comfortable with comes into my life, submission will be unconditional as will the love I would feel for that person in my life, for to me... submission and a deep and unconditional love go hand in hand and simply cannot exist one without the other...


I have a multitude of likes within the realm of the D/s, BDSM Lifestyle, and very few real limits... To me the need for limits lasts only as long as it takes to build a solid foundation of trust between myself and my Dominant... For with absolute trust also comes the knowledge that there is no reason for limits for that Dominant would never cross over to a place where they knew their submissive felt unsafe or fearful for her personal well being... The Dominant who earns my trust will have also earned my unconditional love and unyeilding surrender and loyalty as a submisive woman...


Some of my many loves in the realm of the BDSM lifestyle are Bondage (in many forms), Sensory Deprivation, Fireplay, Knife play, Needle play, Floggers, Crops, Canes, Fisting, Anal play, Temporary Piercings and Medical play (ie: forced enemas for punishment or cleansing purposes, catheters, etc.) My only serious limits are Children, Animals, Permanent Injuries, and Bull whips...


I am currently not collared and am really not looking for either a Dominant or a submissive... I am perfectly content to spend my time with my close friends as well as working on my business...My life is kept fairly full between friends and others within the lifestyle and my home life, and I find my happiness within myself thus really am not in need of someone in my life to be able to be happy. Though if the Dominant I could surrender my very soul to were to enter my life at this moment, I would not turn away and would serve with every fiber of my being...


What I do not seek are online wannabe Dominants or submissives... My online time is for the purpose of making and maintaining long and meaningful relationships with others of like mind, who like myself live the BDSM lifestyle in the real world... not just online.


I am not saying that I will not speak or become friends with those who have not yet enjoyed the first real experience with either a Dom or a sub though they plan to do so... Simply stated, I choose not to waste my time or energy with those who view this lifestyle as just some online fantasy, or those whose only intent is to lower the degree of honor this lifestyle affords those who actively live it. I have little tolerance for fools and and game players whose only goal is to see how many people they can hurt.